Well.   So a small anecdote first.   Remember in the movie “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” (the weird, not as good Johnny Depp version), the grandparents were all in bed discussing Mr. Wonka’s chocolate factory and Grandmother Geraldine breaks in with, “I love grapes!”   Talking to Phil is sometimes kind of like that. Like I’ll say, “Do you want me to pack this veggie salad up for your lunch tomorrow?” One would think the answer would be either yes or no, or some variation of yes or no. Maybe, for instance. His response is, “I like the dressing on this salad.”   Or I’ll say, “How do you…