A little over a year ago, I sent Phil a text. Now, this is not an unusual occurrence and I have sent Phil many texts before and after this particular one.   What was unusual about this text was the message itself. Which was: “I want to run the Disneyland 10K next year.” Phil’s response was something like, “ok.” (I’m paraphrasing because this exchange took place a year ago and I didn’t save them and my memory isn’t what it was a year ago.) I answered with, “And I want you to run it with me.” There was a longer pause after this last text and finally his reply, “How…